Ignore them. There's nothing you can do to convince a paranoiac otherwise.
Why not just develop or pursue really interesting hobbies...women cannot abide by being ignored, so unless you're stone-cold ugly, a molester, or poverty-stricken, all you need to do is wait like dripping meat on a tree branch in Grizzly country.What's the best way for men to do to avoid giving women a false idea/hope that they're sexually objectified?
For men women wish to date or already involved with, there is nothing wrong with being made to feel sexy. The problem is where and when and how this objectification occurs.
For instance, the creepy coworker, the sleazy retailer, and your fiance's touchy-feely uncle are people giving sexual attention and objectification that is not asked for...
It is also the mindset that if a woman is NOT sexy in the way a man thinks women ought to be that she ought to be treated differently or worse than other women.
If you treat all women with respect and not the ones you only want to date or sleep with, then you shouldn't have any problems.
Women will always think they're being sexually objectified, they're lesbian-leaning gynocentrists. According to them, women are the most beautiful thing on earth and the world spins around their vaginae. Asking them to stop objectifying other women and themselves would be even harder than asking them to sexually objectify men; they have lesbian preferences/tendencies, is natural for them to objectify women.
As far as I know, all that you and other men should do is just be polite. Politeness should be the way all of us treat one another anyways, regardless of gender.
If you feel flirty towards a woman, don't be a pig about it and make sexual innuendos. Say something cute or funny instead. If you think she's lovely and you want to look at her and admire her, be subtle about it, and be adult enough to make eye contact rather than staring crudely at her bust. That's rude. Oh, and keep your hands to yourself (most men do anyways, I think!). It's not hard. Just be polite and respectable. If a woman still feels like she's being made into an object, that's her own bunch of baggage to deal with and not at all the man's fault.
The average women doesn't think she is a sex object. Now if she is parading around half nude or wearing tight fitted clothing. Then she'll be seen as a sex object by men and women, this is not an issue. Try this, just don't stand there, staring with your mouth hanging open.
@Know It All...Oh so poetic I like it.
I don't agree with saying that ';making women feel less objectified should me a man's primary goal';. A man or woman who starts living for others loses precious time that he could have lived for himself.
They shouldn't.
You can agree or disagree to have sex with a guy. There are no guarantees after that.
u can sexually objectify a man in front of these women, then they will feel you are being fair
Tell them they're ugly and move on.
You mean they're not?
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